WHY YOU SHOULD STOP CHASING FOR A CRUSH

You have a crush, kasi nga gandang lahi niya! the one you thought you love, the one that makes you smile. They make you as crazy as it makes you happy too. 

Pag na Seenzoned ka you think all hope is lost, and then there’s that one text message that means it’s back on. Having a crush can be fun, but it can also be straight-up exhausting. 

Chasing someone that may not be pursuing you gets you nowhere except running circles around your own heart. Kasi nga wala namang kayo, at walang magiging kayo. Chasing someone only makes you lose your own self while they keep theirs. We try to give meaning in every flirty comments, yung lalagyan mo lahat ng meaning kasi nga hoping ka, but the truth is that if someone is into you, you’ll just know.

When you meet the right person, you won’t need to run and chase them, because you’ll both want to walk together. Your world will change and the only direction left to go will be forward, holding hands, together! kilig!. Otherwise, you are just wasting time conspiring on how to make someone fall for you. You’re forgetting that the right person will like you without you even trying.

You begin to offer your heart to someone who doesn’t deserve you and you start to forget about the person who will stay and accept you.The one who will support you, court you and will do anything just to be with you... 

You have been staring on your phone for an hour waiting for his text messages,  You think you’re playing the game, but they’re just playing with your heart. Every time your phone buzz, you’re praying that it’s them. When it is, you get that hope high again and the smile on your face that won’t go away. When it isn’t, you become sad at na babad mood kana, putangina yung work ko di ako maka concentrate. Then when time goes on and there’s no text and you were the last one to send a message, it’s literally torture to know you cannot , should not , do not send a second text to an unanswered one. sineen na nga tinext parin! But you do anyways. they like your facebook photo — then it’s back on again. Hope is high nanaman si ate girl.

The fact of the matter is, you shouldn’t chase after someone’s heart because It means that it’s not meant for you.  You shouldn’t  chase a person because It means that they’re going in a different direction.

Stop staring at your phone waiting for them. Look up and live the life in front of you, because you don’t want to miss the moment you were born for. You don’t want to miss the moment that destiny wrote in the stars for you.

Stop chasing butterflies and start chasing your ambitions. 
Start crossing out your bucket list.  Chase your dreams. Chase the sunrise.  Chase laughter. Chase the redhorse. Chase memories.

Stop chasing love, and let love find you.   

You will meet the right one  and will hit you so hard when you least expect it. So stop wasting time. So stop wasting your life. Chase destiny, because destiny is the only forever that is meant to be.